Paul
was born on the 21st July 1946 at a nursing home in Crickhowel in South Wales. His
parents were Arthur and Rene, an unusual mix of Jewish and Protestant, that
certainly worked for them. Paul’s father
was a local doctor (GP) in Ebbw Vale in South Wales. When Paul was only
a few months old, the doctors’ practice and family moved to Liverpool in
England.
According
to his sister Joni, Paul was a beautiful child, flaxen haired and blue
eyed.& always into some sort of mischief. Also being quite a bit younger
than his siblings, his Mum apparently let him get away with murder. He had a
lot of friends, but his best friend was Peter Edwards who lived over the road and
they remained close throughout their lives. They spent many hours in a large
room at the top of the house engrossed with a huge model railway set and making
Airfix model planes. Read Pete Edwards story for further details on their
escapades, including one of Paul’s first accidents, this time on 4 wheels.
When
Paul was 10 years old he was sent to boarding school first to Sea scale in
Cumberland and then to Epson Boys School in Surrey which he hated. He returned
to Liverpool during holidays and the room eventually became the music room,
where the two would bash away on guitar’s. Paul spent one year as an undergraduate at St
Andrews University in Scotland, but decided that this wasn’t for him. His
parents also had a house on Angelsea in N. Wales, later moving to Caernarvon
and Nefyn in N. Wales when the doctor retired. Wales had a special place in Paul’s
heart and his racing leathers sported the Welsh flag on the back. The leathers
followed paul from country to country and went with him in the end.
He
developed a taste for motor bikes early on, and Paul and Pete Edwards travelled
to see the TT races in the Isle of Man
where he was fascinated by Giacomo Agostini. Another racer Paul greatly admired
was Mike Hailwood. His mother Rene
bought his first motorbike for him, and went and watched him race, attempting
to keep the fact unknown to his dad. Unfortunately when racing at the circuit
at Brands Hatch, he went down on his bike and received severe injuries
including a concussion that put him in a coma.
Paul
moved to London in the early 70’s, and the Imperial pub and a flat in Radcliffe
Gardens, Chelsea which became the main venue for many parties, music and good
times with friends.
In 1974
he met Lorraine while working in London and they moved to Holland, living in
Amsterdam and Naarden for a while. It is here that he purchased a 750 cc Ducati
(after crashing another bike on an icy wooden bridge on his way home from work)
and decided to race again. Upon their return to England, they ended up in Boreham
Wood in the outskirts of London, and home to the Bladon brothers who helped
immensely as they were club racers themselves on classic BSA bikes. Many weekends were spent club racing at
Snetterton, Cadwell Park and other venues, and Paul had his dreams come true racing
his beloved Ducati in the Isle of Man and completing the grueling 37 mile race.
Lorraine and Paul both continued to race their bikes after moving to Clipston
near Market Harborough. They bought a house in this small rural village but
decided to take computer contracts in California for 6 months in 1981 and left
the house rented fully planning on returning. They both remained in California
and were together until May 1985, living in Belmont and Redwood City, south of
San Francisco. They remained friends and he visited her and her husband and
son, Scott in their house in Grass Valley.
Paul
married Barbara and received his “green card” allowing him to reside in the USA
permanently. When they split, he found himself a room with Jane Harper (now
Jane Sullivan) who was a land lady but who also became a close friend.
Hopefully she will fill in some of the blanks during the years the early 90’s,
but much time was spent with kindred spirits from Liverpool and Ireland in the
pubs of San Mateo and San Francisco. That
was until the fateful night when he was found unconscious on the pavement in
the early hours and was back in hospital again in a coma. This time he nearly
did not make it through, but thanks to Jane, her brother and others, he was
kept on life support and did regain consciousness. He was left with weakness on
one side and had to use a cane. His physical condition gradually deteriorated
over the years, but his spirit remained. According to friends who knew him at
Lesley Terrace in Belmont where he died on Sept. 22nd, 2012, he
still had a twinkle in his eye, a wicked sense of humor and a friendly, cheeky smile that many of us
will long remember.
If anyone is interested in making a donation in Paul's name, Lorraine's suggestion is www.mercycorps.org/tags/soccerforlife which incorporates two great charities (Mercy Corps and Partners in Health) and supports soccer and mentoring for impoverished kids in Haiti.