Skye Harris
(2006 - 2006)

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General Details

Name:	Skye Harris
Gender:	Male
Lived:	Saturday, 24 June 2006 - Saturday, 24 June 2006

My Story

I was born 5 months early to my mummy Sophia and my daddy Kirk. Unfortunately my mummy caught an infection in her placenta which resulted in me arriving early. Because of the huge amount of water loss when mummy's waters broke the doctors and nurses were unable to keep me alive. I was a very loved baby and i would have wanted for nothing if i was here today. My mummy and daddy named me Skye because as i passed on from this world i traveled into a better place above where the birds fly free and the sun shines bright. When the sun rises in the morning and as the stars twinkle in the night know that it is me watching over my family smiling, loving and protecting them as they have done for me.x

The moment i found out i was expecting, i was overjoyed beyond belief. Throughout the pregnancy i was always sick but at the back of my mind i knew it was all worth it because my little man was growing inside of me. I always felt i was having a boy no matter what anyone said and i was right. The night it happened i had been out looking at baby clothes and spending time with my sister in law who was also expecting. I was feeling pain that day but it went by the time i got home. About 2:00 in the morning i was asleep and then i heard a pop and my waters broke. I rushed to the loo hoping and praying i was in a dream but wat i saw was all to real. I was taken to the hospital where the doctors explained that if i still had enough water around the baby then they would be able to save him. I had a scan which confirmed that all the water had gone and my bladder was now pressing against my boy. I listened to his heart beat and it was so faint it sounded so weak. Looking at the monitor at him inside me looking so perfect broke my heart. I was told i had two choices: abort the pregnancy (they would induce my labour) or if i carry on till 34 weeks he would be disabled as his lungs would not be developed due to the lack of water so i told them i needed time to think. I remember locking myself in the toilet and holding my belly telling him mummy didnt want him to suffer anymore and he was to let go and be at peace and that i would always love him. After what felt like forever i was checked again and i was told i had no choice as he was making his way out.....my little man heard me and could not take any more. I begged them to try and help him i came up with all kind of ideas but nothing could help him. They told me i would have to go through the labour and from then on everything seemed to happen in slow motion. It was the hardest thing i have ever had to do, the pain was unreal especially knowing when he did arrive he wouldnt be alive. My angel was born at 8:55 on Sat 24th June 2006 weighing 300 grams and he was perfect in every way .I remember this huge feeling of emptyness as he came out and i have felt like that to this day. It was so hard driving away from the hospital knowing i had to leave him behind and i couldnt be with him i remember staring back at the hospital as we drove away knowing my heart was there left behind. My boy is my life and he is my heart and i thank God for allowing me to have the little time i had with him. He is so special that words cannot describe how much i miss him or how much i love him. But he is my angel now watching over me and i know he is in a better place and one day i will be able to hold him and love him the way that i want to. Rest in Peace my Darling.xxxx

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From: AuntyMel

From: Sophia

From: Sophia

"If tears could build a stairway, and memories were a lane, I would walk right up to heaven to bring you home again. ...

From: Sophia

xXx

From: Antonya
Song Name: Angel of mine
Artist: Eternal

I listened to this song today and immediatly thought of you. You are missed s...

From: Sophia

Thinking of you everyday as always son.x

From: Antonya

Happy belated bithdaii Skye We lov you hope ur happii whereva u are Hope your day was as speshal as you baby Lov...

From: Sophia

Happy Birthday Son.xxx

From: Sophia

Laying this flower remembering your 2nd Birthday.x

From: xNicolex

Baby boy, I know you're in a better place, looking down on all of us, smiling. I know you're that star in the sky, th...

From: Antonya

I know your in a better place, where the sunshines bright all day and the birds sing sweet songs. I know you'll be ha...

Biography

Fathers Name:	Kirk
Mothers Name:	Sophia
Country of Birth:	England
Religion:	Other

Interests

Passing

Place of Passing:	Chase Farm Hospital
Date of Passing:	24 June 2006
Cause of Passing:	Miscarrige at 5 weeks
Place of Burial:	New Southgate Cemetary
Funeral Date:	24 August 2006